apparently another pair of friends are on the express train to splitsville. i don’t know anything about their situation yet, nor do i know how hard they have or haven’t tried to keep things together. neither are the type to take marriage lightly, and they seem so damned perfect for each other, so i’m at a loss and i’m trying to talk them both into making it work.
i think that i get defensive and worked up about trying to keep people’s marriages together because i think it means that i can keep mine together. not that bwe and i are even looking for good deals on tickets to splitsville, but when three couples that got married within a year of you gettng married (seven and a half years ago) are breaking up, it makes you listen for the sound of the other shoe falling, no?
crazy times, kids. we’re living in crazy times.
